Monday, August 29, 2005

Weekend away with Matt

We had a wonderful time on our weekend away. The weather was very nice on Saturday for the wedding, which was good since it was an outdoor wedding. We took advantage of the nice setting for some pictures.

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I think I like this one best, but the color is not fabulous.
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We are sitting on a rickety old wooden chair and I wasn't confident it would hold one person, let alone 2.5 people.

The reception site had a little pond and a creek running by. It was pretty darn cold by night time, but they had little heaters placed around. The wedding was nice. We were 2 of 5 people (excluding family) from Fairbanks, which is where the bride is from, so I am glad we made the effort to attend. With time to kill in Anchorage on Sunday and no baby, we went to a movie. We watched 40 year old virgin. It was funny, but not hilarious. I wish we would have been able to see Wedding Crashers instead. Matt was able to experience what it will be like with more kids around. All three little Bennett kids came in to wake us up on Saturday and snuggle. They knocked and I said yes. Such sweet kids.
Gwendolyn was very happy to see us. She was a little mommy clingy this morning, daddy wasn't going to cut it for anything. She has learned that please comes after more and she is much more likely to get what she is asking for. "more please", too cute.

Friday, August 26, 2005

Final Fling

Matt and I are going away for the weekend. We are flying to Anchorage tonight after work. We have a wedding to attend at Alyeska Ski Resort, no there is no snow right now, on saturday evening. I have booked us a B&B with our own jacuzzi for saturday night. Yep, I'll enjoy 5 minutes at a time and not cook the little man. Tried on 8 dresses last night, feelin like a cow. At least the wedding party is wearing black, so I can get away with flattering black and not feel like I am being morbid.We will probably go out to dinner tonight in Anchorage to the Outback. Love that place!! Yummy. This will be our/my last time away before baby is born, I am assuming. So I plan to enjoy the hell out of it, leave my 20's with a (sober) bang. 4 days till my 30's begin....

Tuesday, August 23, 2005

Baby naming quiz

So we are still nowhere with a boys name, go figure. I just opened an e-mail from American Baby that said it had a quiz to help you name your child. 12 questions and this is what it spits out.

You were probably pretty popular during your teenage years -- wore all the hip clothes, went to all the best parties, and dated the quarterback of the football team. If you want your child to be the best-liked kid in his or her class, you should consider baby names that people associate with being kind, popular, fun, attractive, and stylish.

OK, thanks. I know I was popular and liked to party, but give me a name dammit. I am already TRYING to come up with something that is associated with being kind, fun, attractive, and stylish. But what is that. I don't want something that there will be 5 of in the classroom, nor do I want something so off the wall that it is lame. You are giving this little person an identity for the rest of their lives, like it or not. It has to get them through childhood and still be a good grown-up name. Ugghhhh, suggestions???

Friday, August 19, 2005

Suprise follow-up

It went off like a charm!!!!He was very suprised and excited I think he slept about 1 hour that night, he was like a little kid wanting to play with his new toy (or me, in gratitude, get away buddy - it is 2 am) I didn't have many lights on in the garage, didn't want to seem to obvious, so the quality of the picture isn't the greatest.
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His coming in the door with a dumbfounded look on his face. He said I suprised him, being there, and then it dawned on him what I was sitting on

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He is walking around me and the 4 wheeler in awe. I placed a video camera on the keg cooler located behind him, pointed at the door. Yes, we have a keg cooler in the garage, no we are not alcoholics.

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Him on his new toy. I think he read the whole manual that night and started it like 4 times, just to rev it up. The messy garage is his fault, his domain, his responsibilty. Anyhow, went very well and he didn't expect it. This is his birthday, christmas, anniversary, and fathers day for the next 4 years. Yeah right, I'll still get him stuff, but nothing huge. I like that he felt the need to comment that he would get me back someday. woohoo, can't wait for that day. Now, we will see how he does with my big 3-0 in a couple weeks.
So my Dad calls the following morning to see what Matts reaction was. I put Matt on the phone to talk and the second questiom my dad asked was "was she naked"? Damn Dad. Does this make him a pervert for thinking I might/should have or does it make me a pervert for thinking about doing it??
He was waiting to patiently for me to get home from work yesterday and take over with Gwendolyn. He so badly wanted to ride his new toy before all my family came over for dinner and someone asked to ride it. he wanted to be the first. Such a big kid.
He has been riding it for about an hour each night to add on some miles. You can't open the engine up fully till you have 100 miles on it and he intends on going hunting in a couple weeks and will ride it hard then. The first time I saw him come back to the house he didn't have a helmet on and I tore into him. He easily conceeded saying since I bought it for him, he would wear a helmet for me. Good, I don't want to raise two kids on my own.

Tuesday, August 16, 2005

Suprise for Matt

Matt has been whining for months that he wants/needs a 4-wheeler. This is a seasonal request mind you. Other times it is a new boat or a new snowmachine. He went and priced out and compared all the different brands a couple weeks ago and was still contemplating the if he should part. Is it necessary? can we afford it (I pay the bills, he is in the dark)? do I really want one? All those stupid questions. I had been mentally plotting for a couple weeks that I would go buy it when he was out of town fishing. Today I did. I have it in the garage and will be waiting on it, with a camera when he arrives home. I plan to lock the overhead garage door, so he has to use the "man" door. Where I will be sitting in wait, hehe. If I didn't feel so non-sexy pregnant , I would put more thought into sitting on it naked, just for the shock effect. He is going to be soooo stoked. This better earn me a fabulous 30th birthday in a couple weeks, otherwise I am taking it back. My dad is supposed to call me when Matt drops him off. I have at least an hour to wait still. Its killing me I will post pictures tomorrow of his suprised look, if all goes according to plan.

Tuesday, August 09, 2005

2nd Place baby

Just for giggles, we entered Gwendolyn in the baby contest at the State Fair on Sunday. She was in the 13-18 month division. Out of 39 contestant she won the most talkative, go figure. She waved at all the judges and said bye-bye, bye-bye as we walked past. On top of that she won 2nd place for the division. Yea Gwendolyn. That earned her a ribbon and a little gold ring that actually fits her ring finger. I was very happy with 2nd place, 1st meant we had to come back for more at 8pm and she is just not so cute then. So, that was our adventuresome afternoon. I was amazed to win, not that I don't think she is adorable, but there were tons of pagenty moms and kids there. I kid you not, there was a poor toddler in a gown and tiara and one in a tux. Did they place? No. Poor judges probably felt sorry for them. I just spit shined mine and marched her out there for fun, not competition. Its a state fair, for crying out loud.
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Tuesday, August 02, 2005

What I came home to yesterday


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I am assuming Matt knows how to spell and these were the only letters he could come up with.  Either way you look at it, I was tickled that he thought to make this for me.  This was waiting for me at the top of the stairs.  I am amazed Gwendolyn left it alone long enough.  The man is working on earning brownie points all right.  He must really want that new 4-wheeler.

Monday, August 01, 2005

Sweet husband - baby name

I get bummed with Matt when he doesn't leave his hand on my belly long enough to actually feel the baby kick. He will put it there for a minute and then take it away with or without a kick felt. He did the same with Gwendolyn. He was interested but, not overly if you catch my drift. With Gwendolyn we knew what the name would be for a girl all along, so we had no major name discusions. Saturday night, Matt and I were going to take a jacuzzi bath and I grab a magazine to read and he comes in with the baby name book and proceedes read through all the boy names out loud and we discuss any possibilities (essencially none, boy names are lame). I was just tickled that he took the initiative. I was laying in bed later that night smiling with my eyes closed and he called me on it. I admitted that it was his gesture that put the smile on my face.
Don't get me wrong, we still have no name for a baby boy, but Matt was still sweet. I need to get another book, apparently 15,000 names are not enough, though well more than half were girls names.

Thursday, July 28, 2005

Carnival Picture

I look fat and she looks grumpy with her wrinkled nose look, but what the hell, we are in a picture together.  I really do have hair, but it is all pulled back.  This was taken at a kids carnival I was working at.
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Wednesday, July 27, 2005

TV watching toddler

I have been so excited that my little girl and wanted nothing to do with watching tv. Sure there are times I would like her to sit still and not need me or play. Hey, I like to cook dinner in peace. last week she sat on my lap and watched 15 minutes of Dora. That is the most yet. i had tried Baby Einstein and she could care less, fine by me. She spent the morning with my mom today and is starting to get a cold/runny nose, so was a little tender. I just spoke with mom and she said Gwendolyn loved watching Barney, watched for half an hour. Great, it has to be the big lame purple dianosar that catches her attention. Baby Einstein I liked, Barney I loath. Matt will be real happy with this turn of events, I'm sure. I can tell you there will never be a tv in her room while she is in my house. Dang, that sounded very parent like.

Had a very successful weekend of shopping in Anchorage with Erin. We filled the back of the car and didn't even have any big items. Went to lunch with some girlfriends and had a fun visit. Anchorage has lots to offer, but I still like the pace of Fairbanks better. We are going to dinner at Marwan and Erins' tonight. Enchiladas, yummy. Hope Gwendolyn behaves herself in a non-childproof house. At least it is her aunt and uncles place. They are long-term housesitters, so none of the crap is even theirs. It will be so nice when we both have new little babies. I saw a 6 week old yesterday, so little and sweet. I miss when Gwendolyn was immobile. As I am sure I will miss when she couldn't talk and won't shut up now.

Oh well, the trials and tribulations of kids.

Tuesday, July 19, 2005

Belly shots at 21 weeks

I made Matt take a couple pictures of me last night. Not the greatest in clarity, but what can you do. As of last week, I have gained 3 pounds and have felt little man kicking around since 18 weeks on a regular basis. The heartbeat from the ultrasound was 146. I was never given a number with Gwendolyn. I wish I would have measured my belly at the end of my last pregnancy so I have something to compare to.
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I look veiny, yuck
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Gwendolyn is curious about belly buttons. She has no concept that mama has a baby in her belly. She has been good with babies lately, though she needs to learn to be a little more gentle. That will come with consistant time around baby brother. I bought a few boy pj's and outfits at the used place yesterday. I bought a fair amount for Gwendolyn and then was given tons of fabulous hand-me-downs. She has so much clothes, it is ridiculous!!! There are tons of things that I never tooks the tags off, that I have given away. Why use the brand new that I bought when there are so many great used ones. If something was given to us, I will wash and put her in it, but if it was one I bought-I regift. There I admit it, I regift. That is a load off. Does it really count when I am regifting something I bought in the first place?

Sunday, July 17, 2005

It's a BOY

I as still in a little shock, I had resigned myself to it being a girl. All the old wives tales pointed to a girl. I thought Gwendolyn was going to be a boy and she wasn't and I thought this one was going to be a girl, so I should have known it would be a boy. Matt is beaming proud. I know he wanted a boy. I only cared because I knew Matt wanted a boy so bad. I had gotten used to thinking of the baby as Trinity, our girl name. Now we need to narrow down our boy choices. We like Blake, my favorite last time
Blaise, but just heard that is the name of a character in the new Harry Potter and it will become popular
Troy
Harley, but our last name is Bunch, so I don't know what I think of that.
It is nice to know gender ahead of time and have the luxary of weighing these heavy choices. Now to shop for blue clothes. My sister-in-law and I are going to Anchorage (350 miles) to shop for baby stuff this next weekend. No baby, should be very nice.
Since Matt is not home to take a picture of my belly, I will post another picture of Gwendolyn.
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Rainy 4th of July Parade in Ketchikan

Matt and Gwendolyn
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Ketchikan vacation


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We had a very successful two week vacation with the inlaws.  We rented a 27 ' motorhome and drove through Canada to catch the ferry to Ketchikan.  The driving was 2 and 1/2 days each way and the ferry was 6 hours, not too bad.  Gwendolyn tolerated it.  She is way too active of a child to be retrained for long.  Unfortunatly, she learned to throw her body over the portable crib on the drive home, no longer containable.  Damn monkey!!  It rained the whole time we were there, but what do you expect in a temperate rain forrest?  Oh well, we still had fun.  There was a parade on the 4th and Gwendolyn was happy in the backpack the whole time, surprise.  We also learned that she has enough hair to create pigtails, yea!  I am in none of the pictures, yet again.  The husband of mine needs to learn to pick up the camera, though he will say I need to tell him to take pictures.  That always makes me feel conceited.  Right before we left the in-laws learned that their taxes were wrong a few years back and they got a few extra thousand dollars back, we didn't pay for a thing on vacation.  So nice!!!

Monday, June 27, 2005

Are you stupid??


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I didn't score so well, but hey it is monday morning and I go on vacation in two days. I borrowed this from Christas' blog, just for fun. I also have a fun new sling coming from Christa that I can use now with Gwendolyn and with the new baby. BB2 was kicking me in the bladder the other night. Such an amazing feeing, not having to pee, but feeling a life growing inside you.

Friday, May 27, 2005

Puffy Baby Picture


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She looks worse today, the puffiness is creeping down into her eye lids. The dr put her on antibiotics today with concern for staf and the swelling not having gone down. I feel so bad for her. I don't know if it hurts or itches, but she seems bothered by it. Poor baby:(
We bought the mosquito machine and it cost $500:eek2 , but it is eating them already.:clap
Keep us in your prayers that the swelling goes down.

Thursday, May 26, 2005

Damn Mosquitos

We spent the morning in the Dr.s office. What I thought was a goose egg on Gwendolyns forehead from a fall was in fact a bug bite. This morning her whole forehead was swollen about an inch out and was about to creep down into her eyes. Talk about panic, but kept my cool overall, hormonal as I am. We got into the Dr and he said she just reacts bad to mosquitos, thank that part has been obvious for a while. Any bite she gets swell to twice the size it sould be and gets a scabby head to it. She never seems bothered by them and was mildly bothered by her forehead. The head/face being so vascular makes them react different. He put her on Zyrtec for 5 days and gave us more to use sporadically for the rest of summer. I have to watch her forehead and if it turns bright red and seems painful, then it could have turned into staf infection. He does not recommend using bug dope at all because of the deet, just to keep her covered. Dh is at the store right now to buy a mosquito machine. They are said to eliminate all mosquitos within an acre. You empty out a bagfull every day or so. I would say $300 is worth a normal headed baby. Is you are unaware, Alaska is the mosquito capital of the World, they are everywhere!!!!

Monday, May 23, 2005

My interview

Elaine, per my request on her blog. She asked me these questions. My answers are below. If you want to be interviewed, let me know in the comments, and I'll give you some questions. Rules follow my q&a

1.When Gwendolyn was born, what was the first thing you remember saying to her?
My first statement in general was "how big is she?" but I remember telling her she didn't have to cry, that she didn't receive the big Cross ears. Most of my moms sibling have big ears that stick out and that was one of the first things my mom did, pull back her hat and look at her ears with relief. I am positive I said some endearing things prior to that, I remember kissing her, but that is my first active memory.
2. How did you meet your husband?
Matt and I knew of each other, due to this being a smallish town. Both he and my brother are hockey players and that is a "group" here. We went to different high schools, but had some mutual friends during and after high school. My boyfriend during college ended up hanging out with matt and his friends while snowmachining, but he never wanted me around for those things, butthead. Matt was waiting and ready to persue me once we broke up. He gave it a two month grace period then jumped in. We would all hang out at a local sports bar and discovered that him and I were the only two people who had not seen Titanic, so off we went alone to a movie. A few days after that he call to ask me to go to Arctic Man (snowmachine race out of town - like sturgis for harley people), I agreed. My comment to my mom after hanging up the phone was "this won't be serious, he snores". 7 years later we are married with 1 1/2 kids and he still snores.
3. If you could go back to one point in your life and have a “do over” would you and what point would it be?
I would go back to the start of High School and make better choices. Though I may not be the person I am today without those experiences. In Jr High I was on the Gymnastics team and enjoyed cross country skiing and looked forward to going out for that team in High School. Instead, I started smoking and sneaking out and making dumb choices. I often wonder who I would be now if I had made better choices then. I feel I do a great job of helping people in my job and personal life and love the friends I still have from that time frame, so no regrets.
4. Your blog says, “I have shot and killed a Black Bear.” Tell us about this. In May of 2000 my Dad and I went to Valdez to pick up two of my cousins. They had kayaked out past Columbia Glacier for a few days, intending on camping and killing a Black Bear each. Our job was to take the boat out to pick them up, they didn't want to paddle all the way back in. It takes 4 hours or so in the boat to make it to the area. My dad owns and operates a 32 foot charter boat that sleeps 6 people. I bought a hunting license prior to going, thinking I might shoot a bear. We found the boys right where they were supposed to be, each having shot a bear. My dad and I saw at least 10 bears milling around on shore and decided to go for it. We took the dingy (little boat on the back of a big boat) to shore and were watching 4 bears off to the right. I look to the left and see a huge bear by itself. I say what wrong with that one? He says nothing go for it, its huge! I lay down on the beach and sight in the bear with the scope. Amazinly, my first shot was right on the heart and he started flipping all around and scurried off into the woods. My dad could not fathom sending his little girl into the woods to see if this huge bear was dead or not, so he went. He came back dragging the bear and rolling it to get it closer to shore. My cousins came to shore then and I bribed them to skin it for me. I bought them dinner when we got back to town. This may sound gross but, a bear looks very human without the fur, it is odd. Turns out the bear was 6'4", huge for a Black Bear and very old. Bear tastes like what they have been eating and this bear lived on fish. So imagine beef texture and fish taste, nasty. I had lots made into polish sausage, but still never liked it. Matt went down a couple weeks ago to try and kill a bear, but they only saw one mama. So I am still the big huntress of the house. I told him he wasn't allowed to kill one unless it was bigger than mine, fat chance. When we arrived back in the harbor in Valdez we had all three hides hung across the flying bridge (top floor of a boat that has the roof folded down). There were tourists walking to docks and the first to stop saw the hides and commented, ah look a mama bear and her two cubs. That is how much bigger mine was than my cousins. Had that statement been made prior to them skinning it for me, I would have been in a world of hurt.
5. What’s your favorite magazine?
People, I love the sensless celebrity gossip. It is so brain numbing. That and I can usually complete the crossworld puzzle and that makes me feel smart.

The Official Interview Game Rules

1. If you want to participate, leave a comment below saying "interview me."

2. I will respond by asking you five questions - each person's will be different.

3. You will update your journal/blog with the answers to the questions.

4. You will include this explanation and an offer to interview others in the same post.

5. When others comment asking to be interviewed, you will ask them five questions.

Tuesday, May 17, 2005

I've been tagged...

Tagged by Nikki...passing on the favor to the 3 at the bottom.The rules are simple when you're tagged.Choose 5 items from the list to write about.Tag 3 other individuals when you're done.
If I could be a scientist...
If I could be a farmer... all my plants would grow with the minimalist of water. That seems to be my current problem.
If I could be a doctor...
If I could be a painter... I would paint building murals that would make people smile when they saw them.
If I could be a gardener...
If I could be a missionary... I would take my family and travel to Mexico and teach how to sustain themselves and better their lives for future generations.
If I could be an athlete...
If I could be a lawyer...I would prosecute all the murderers, child molesters, mean people, rapists.... and always win.
If I could be an innkeeper...
If I could be a professor...
If I could be a writer...
If I could be a llama rider...
If I could be a bonnie pirate...
If I could be an astronaut...
If I could be a world famous blogger...
If I could be a justice on any one court in the world...
If I could be married to any current famous political figure...I don't care who it is, but they would love me and they would make it policy that issurance always covers birth control and men had to struggle to afford viagra.

I am supposed to now pass on my tag, but all the bloggers I know have already been tagged. Maybe I should think up a new tag??

Tuesday, April 26, 2005

Get Down Tonight

I just found a fun website that tells you what the #1 song was the day you were born. I am "Get Down Tonight" by KC and the Sunshine (or something) band. I love that song and always dance to it and sing it randomly when there is nothing else to say. I think it is karma that it was my song. The song for Gwendolyn is not one have heard of, but I am horrible with names, so I may know it. "Yeah" by Usher feat Lil Jon and Ludacris. Don't know?? I am more of a Country girl these days. I throw in old school hiphop when I am going out. Nothing like Alasnis to get a person up when they are bored. I am more of a movie person, the radio is fine enough for me, I go spend money on purchasing movies anyday.

Got some maternity clothes in the mail yesterday off ebay. Don't think I will last anywhere near 23 weeks in my normal clothes this time. Still don't feel terribly pregnant, only tired. Have some of the same food aversions and some new ones, garlic is not my friend right now.